Birth: pt 3- Birth

This is where my memory of things begins to get a bit foggy. From this point on there are no timestamps because I can't remember exactly what happened when.

I remember trying to gown up in between contractions, as well as trying to answer a lot of the same questions I had been asked two nights prior. I remember laboring in an odd, but very comfortable position: my rear in the air and my head hanging off the end of the bed. I remember the increasing intensity of the contractions- how one moment I could breathe through them easily... and the next can only be described as agony. I remember my blood pressure kept rising and I had to wear the cuff constantly. I remember the epidural procedure and the near instant relief from it. The epidural went in only an hour before my son was born, but after 47 hours of labor I was ready for it. I didn't know whether it would be an hour or another ten hours before I actually delivered this child.

I remember getting ready to push. The urge was overwhelming! My aunt, my birth coach, was unable to make it in time, so one of the nurses had to hold my left leg. I made the most of each contraction and pushed four times with each one. I could not see the monitor behind me, but Miles' heartrate would drop with each push. For a little while they were able to raise his heartrate again by reaching in and smacking him on the head. Eventually, however, his heartrate would not come up enough so. Dr. Marotta tried a small vacuum on his head to help him out, but with little time to spare, resorted to an episiotomy. Suddenly the head was out and... I was a Mommy again!

I held my newborn son on my chest, skin-to-skin as I had requested. He was warm, wet, very noisy, and oh so precious. For a few minutes he and I just rested together, getting used to seeing each other for the first time. Jarod cut the cord and Miles was taken to have normal newborn procedures done, screaming the whole time! What a spectacular baby!

Birth: pt 2- The Waiting

Tuesday April 27, morning:

We both took a 3 hour nap while my mom watched Mark. I was laboring the whole time. Throughout the rest of the day I spent some quality time with Mark, playing games, drawing pictures and hanging out. I knew this was going to be the last day with him.

Tuesday April 27, evening:

I took a bath to help with the pain and called my girlfriends. I had invited them over for a birthday dinner that I knew was not going to happen. My contractions got as close as 3 minutes apart, but I didn't think that was enough to call and go to the hospital again. The last thing I wanted was to be sent home again.

Wednesday April 28 9:00 am:

My 29th birthday! I called the ob first thing in the morning and got the earliest appt possible, 1:30. I wanted to see if I had made any progress in the last 24 hrs, and to check to see that the baby was ok. We had a while to wait, so we went for a walk in the morning, then to the mall to spend one of my gift cards. My mom and I went out to lunch at Uno's. When we got home I vacuumed the hardwoods, saving the carpets for when i got back from the Dr.

Wednesday April 28 1:00 pm:

We left to go to the ob and I told Mark that I would see him soon and we would have birthday dinner with cake when we got back! At the Dr I was found to be 5 cm dilated and 80% effaced. He gave me the option of going to the hospital straight from the office and being induced, saying that I would only require a small amount of pitocin to finish labor, or going home and waiting until things took off on their own. I chose to go home for a number of reasons- 1. We did not have the suitcase for the hospital with us, 2. It was my birthday and I wanted my cake, 3. I really did not want to be induced.

All the while I was at the Dr I had been having contractions, closer together and more intense than any others that day.

Wednesday April 28 2:43pm:

We are on our way home from the ob (about a block away) and I decide to pray. The answer always comes in two words and this time was no different. I asked God what I should do. The answer came loud and clear: "GO NOW." With this command came a ferocious contraction that had me begging Jarod to pull the car over and call the dr's office back. We were on our way to the hospital.

Birth: pt 1- The Beginning

Monday April 26, 9:45 am: Scheduled ob appt during which the dr was supposed to have removed the mucus plug, but I was not progressed enough to do this procedure so it was skipped. I was found to be 2 cm dilated and slightly effaced, which I was delighted to discover. Scheduled another appt for May 3.

Monday April 26, 7:00 pm: Contractions began. Started timing them about 15 minutes later because of the frequency. They were coming a minute apart and lasting a minute long. As I put Mark to bed I continued to contract.

Monday April 26, 8:15 pm: After one hour I called my Aunt and asked her what she thought I should do. I called Dr Marotta's answering service and we decided I should be seen in triage at labor and delivery. I called Jarod, my mother, and Mike M. as planned and told them to be ready.

Monday April 26 9:30 pm: Arrive at Crouse hospital and seen in triage. I was found to be 4 cm dilated and 80% effaced, the baby still at -2 station. They admitted me and began monitoring my contractions as well as the fetal heartbeat. I walked, used the tub, showered, and used nipple stimulation to sustain contractions. My mother arrived to relieve my cousin of babysitting at 11:30 that evening.

Tuesday April 27, 6:00 am: I was given the option of using pitocin to induce the continuation of labor, or else go home. My contractions had reduced to about 10 minutes apart. I chose to go home because I wanted to avoid inducing labor. We arrived home around 8:30 am. Mark was very disappointed we did not bring baby Miles home with us. This was just the beginning of a very hard week.